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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

: WE ARE ALL TEACHER :

A HEART OF TEACHER


We are all teachers at all times. With everything we do, with everything we won't do, with everything we  say, with everything we don't say and with our beliefs, with our attitudes - all of us.. 

when you hold a door for someone, you are being a teacher. When you honk and yell obscenities while driving, you are being teacher. When you walk about with furrowed brow and pursed lips, you are 
being a teacher. When you smile at those who cross your path, you are being a teacher.

It all spreads & it is all felt. The energy that you are walking around with, whether you say anything to
anyone or not, is felt. What are carrying around? what are you spreading out into the world? it is all
within your control. You are choosing it all. The thoughts that come into your brain you may not get to control, but you can choose which ones you are projecting out into the world.

WE ARE ALL TEACHING ALL THE TIMES..

A HEART OF TEACHER's POEM

the child arrives like a mystery box with puzzles pieces inside
some of the pieces are broken or missing.. and others just seem to hide.

But the HEART of a teacher can solve them out, the potential for greatness he has within
a picture of what he can be, her goal isn't just to teach knowledge..
by filling the box with more parts. Its putting the pieces together 
to create a work of art..

the process is painfully slow at times, some need more help than others
each child is a work in progress..with assorted shapes and colors..
First she creates a classroom, where the child can feel in..
Where never feels threatened or afraid to try..and kindness is always the rule

She knows that a child can achieve much more when he feel secure inside
when he's valued and loved.. and believes in himself & has a sense pride 
she models and teaches good character..and respect one another
how to focus on strengths not weaknesses and how to encourage each other.

she gives the child the freedom he needs to make choices on his own
and to learn to become more responsible and is able to stand alone
He taught to be strong and think for himself as his soul and spirit heal
and the puzzle that's taking shape inside.

The child discovers the joy that comes.. from learning something new..
and his vision grows as he begins to see all the things he can do..
A picture is formed as more pieces fit, an image of the child within with greater strength and confidence..
and belief that he can WIN!

A teacher with a HEART for children knows what teaching is all about..
teacher may not have all the answers but on this..she has no doubt
when asked which subject she loved to teach, she answered this way and smiled..
" its not about subjects that matter...
IT's ALL ABOUT TEACHING THE CHILD.."

TRAIN UP THE CHILD IN THE WAY HE SHOULD GO ~ Prov 22 : 6

Sunday, July 1, 2012

HE CARES FOR YOU!




a short story 

satu-satunya org yg selamat dari kemalangan sebuah kapal dan terdampar di sebuah pulau yg kecil dan tidak berpenghuni. lelaki ini segera berdoa kpd Tuhan utk meminta pertolongan dan menyelamatkannya. setiap hari dia mengamati langit mengharapkan pertolongan tetapi xda satupun yang datang. dengan usahanya dia berjaya membina sebuah pondok yang kecil dari kayu2 yang terapung untuk melindungi dirinya dari cuaca dan utk menyimpan barang yang masih dia miliki. 


Tetapi suatu hari, setelah dia pergi mencari makanan, dia kembali ke pondoknya dan mendapati kecil itu telah terbakar. dan yang paling parah, hilanglah semuanya. Dia sgt  sedih dan marah.


" Tuhan, sanggupnya Engkau melakukan ini padaku? " dia menangis.
pada keesokan harinya, dia terbangun oleh suara kapal yang mendekati pulau itu. Kapal itu dtg untuk menyelamatkannya. " bgmn kamu tahu bhw aku ada disini? " tya lelaki itu kpd penyelamatnya..
" kamu melihat tanda asapmu ", jwb mereka.


Sangat mudah utk menyerah ketika keadaan menjadi buruk. tetapi kita tidak boleh goyah kerana Tuhan bekerja dalam hidup kita, juga ketika kita berada dalam kesakitan dan kesusahan. INGAT! ketika pondokmu terbakar, mungkin itu " tanda asap " bagi kuasa Tuhan. Ketika ada kejadian negatif terjadi, kita harus berkata kepada diri sendiri bahawa Tuhan pasti mempunyai jawaban yang positif untuk setiap yg berlaku.


Apakah kita mengalami situasi ini..?

1. kita ditolak ? YESUS ditolak sehingga Ia lahir di kandang yang hina
2. byk pencobaan? Yesus juga dicobai iblis tapi tetap kuat.
3. mengapa harus berusaha ? Yesus selalu pergi kemana saja utk mbritakan injil
4. dikhianati ? Yesus juga dikhianati oleh murid-muridnya
5. Rasa sakit dan menderita? Lihat bgmna Yesus dicambuk dgn parahnya.
6. tidak mampu memaafkan ? Petrus yg menyangkal masih diberi pengampunan oleh Yesus.
7. saat merasa penat ? Bygkn betapa penatnya Yesus memikul salib.
8. ditinggalkan oleh org yg kamu sayang? ingat! Yesus jg pernh ditinggalkan oleh Bapa saat Ia disalib.
9. Menangis dan sedih? Dia ada bersamamu!



ada kalanya kita berada dalam situasi yang sukar. waktu kita sulit mengharapkan orang lain utk mengerti atau peduli keadaan kita. mun gkin  kerana mereka pun seringkali bergumul dengan banyak masalah juga atau mungkin mereka peduli tapi dengan tidak menunjukkannya sehingga kelihatan seperti tidak bagi kita. Jika kita menghadapi saat-saat seperti ini, ingatlah akan 1 hal : ADA TUHAN YANG SANGAT MENGENAL ANDA. Dia tahu pasti apa yang menjadi permasalahan anda, isi hati kita dan paling tahu akan segalanya tentang kita.. Dia siap tertawa gembira bersama kita, Dia pun turut bersedih bersama kita. " TUhan, Engkau menyelidiki dan mengenal aku" mzm 139 ; 1




" Diberkatilah orang yang mengandalkan TUHAN, yang menaruh harapannya pada Tuhan! " Yer 17 : 7. barangsiapa yang menaruh pengharapan kepada Tuhan tidak akan berujung sia-sia.Ketika tidak ada orang mengerti, ada Tuhan yang mengerti. Ketika tidak ada yang peduli, Tuhan selalu peduli. Ketika tidak ada yang mau mengenal anda lebih jauh, Tuhan sudah mengenal anda bahkan lebih dari anda mengenal diri anda sendiri. Tuhan tahu pasti apa yang menjadi pergumulan anda saat ini. Bahkan hal-hal yang mungkin terlalu berat untuk dikemukakan, sulit untuk diucapkan, Tuhan pun mengetahui itu semua. Tuhan sungguh mendengar jeritan hati kita. Anda merasa sendirian saat ini menghadapi segala sesuatu? Datanglah pada Tuhan. Dia sangat mengenal anda, mengerti anda, dan peduli.


"Sebab TUHAN, Dia sendiri akan berjalan di depanmu, Dia sendiri akan menyertai engkau, Dia tidak akan membiarkan engkau dan tidak akan meninggalkan engkau; janganlah takut dan janganlah patah hati."(Ulangan 31:8). 


Saturday, April 28, 2012

F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P


what is TRUE FRIENDSHIP



True friendship involves relationship. Many people say, 
"Oh, he/she's a good friend of mine," 
yet they never take time to spend time with that "good friend." 
Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, 
time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other's growth. 

Trust is essential to true friendship. 
We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. 
We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone,
 without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! 
Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. 
Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. 
Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. 
In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, and no turning away. 

True friendship requires certain accountability factors. 
Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. 
Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. 
Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops.
 We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends. 


Real friendship looks at the heart, not just the "packaging." 
Genuine friendship loves for love's sake, not just for what it can get in return. 
True friendship is both challenging and exciting.
 It risks, it overlooks faults, and it loves unconditionally, 
but it also involves being truthful, even though it may hurt. 
Genuine friendship, also called "agape" love, comes from the Lord. 
The Lord Jesus calls us His friends and He laid down His life for us (John 15). 

Relationships in real life involve different levels of friendships, and that's okay. 
But humans are designed by God for lasting relationships. 
Often our isolationist society offers only vague, empty relationships.
 God wants us to have friends here on earth. Most of all, He wants us to be friends with Him! 







The Lord Jesus Christ gave us the definition of a true friend: 
"Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. 
You are my friends if you do what I command.
 I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. 
Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that 
I learned from my Father I have made known to you" John 15 : 13 - 15. 
Jesus is the pure example of a true friend, for He laid down His life for His "friends." 
What is more, anyone may become His friend by trusting in
 Him as his personal savior, being born again and receiving new life in Him.





"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity" (Proverbs 17:17).
 "A man of many companions may come to ruin, 
but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother" (Proverbs 18:24). 
The issue here is that in order have a friend, one must be a friend. 
"Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses" (Proverbs 27:6).
 " As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another" (Proverbs 27:17).




"Can two walk together, except they be agreed?" (Amos 3:3 ). 
Friends are of like mind. The truth that comes from all of this is a
 friendship is a relationship that is entered into by individuals, 
and it is only as good or as close as those individuals choose to make it. 
Someone has said that if you can count your true friends on the fingers of one hand, 
you are blessed. A friend is one whom you can be yourself with and never fear 
that he or she will judge you. A friend is someone that you can confide in with complete trust.
 A friend is someone you respect and that respects you,
 not based upon worthiness but based upon a likeness of mind.



Finally, the real definition of a true friend : 
"For scarcely for a righteous man will one die; 
yet perhaps for a good man someone would even dare to die. But God demonstrates 
His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners,
 Christ died for us" (Romans 5:7-8). 
"Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends." (John 15:13). 
Now, that is true friendship!

Friday, March 30, 2012

BE A WORSHIPPER



 Kita sebagai manusia merupakan ciptaan Allah yang memiliki sifat untuk menyembah. kita lain dari makhluk ciptaan lainnya. Kita memiliki perasaan yang sama seperti dengan pencipta kita iaitu mengasihi dan dikasihi. Oleh sebab itu berbakti adalah sebahagian besar dari hidup manusia. Adalah sangat tidak masuk akal jika seorang manusia untuk hidup dan tidak menyembah. seperti halnya kita makan dan minum setiap hari, demikian juga didalam penyembahan.
Manusia boleh saja menyembah objek yang salah, tetapi meskipun manusia tetap akan menyembah. berbakti kepada siapa dan apakah itu benar atau tidak bergantung kepada pilihan manusia itu sendiri berdasarkan pengetahuan yang ia miliki sesuai dengan kehendak Tuhan. kenapa kita harus menyembah? kerana Dia berhak untuk disembah, apabila kita menyembah Dia, keadaan kita bukan seperti seorang buruh yang mengharapkan gaji, tanpa pujian kita pun Allah terpuji dengan sendirinya. 

" ... sebab Bapa mengkehendaki penyembah-penyembah demikian. " Yoh 4 : 23
Kerana Allah lah, maka penyembahan ada. Allah itu Roh dan menginginkan penyembahan dalam roh dari manusia rohani. Yoh 4 : 24 berkata " Allah itu Roh dan barangsiapa menyembah Dia harus menyembah dalam roh dan kebenaran " Tidak ada pilihan! Dia hanya mencari penyembah- penyembah yang benar.

APA ITU MENYEMBAH DALAM ROH & KEBENARAN?

: penyembahan dalam Roh & kebenaran tidak ada kaitan dengan bangunan, dinominasi, atau hal-hal lainnya. kita sering terikat dengan gedung atau bangunan. Ada orang yang menyangka bahwa hanya di dalam bangunan gereja sahajalah kita dapat menyembah. Tubuh kita adalah gereja, dan Tuhan sedang membangunnya. Penyembahan itu tidaklah bergantung kepada mimbar dan kerusi, keyboard, bahkan juga bukan kerana buku nyanyian. kita semua disatukan, bukan hanya di dalam persekutuan, tetapi di dalam tubuh Kristus, yang mana Dia adalah kepalanya. Tuhan menginginkan aliran penyembahan yang meluap keluar dari tubuhNya, setiap anggota dalam kemuliaan masing-masing dan selaras satu dengan yang lain.

Untuk dapat menyembah Tuhan, kita juga harus mengubah priority hidup kita dimana tidak ada hal lainnya lagi selain hubungan kita dengan Dia. penyembahan juga tidak ada kaitan dengan perasaan. keinginan kita, termasuk perasaan harus ditundukkan. Apakah kita merasa ingin menyembah atau tidak, kita akan menyembah Tuhan. banyak orang dikuasai dengan perasaannya, perasaan harus menjadi hal yang sekunder dibanding dengan motivasi utama kita untuk menghormati dan memuliakan Tuhan. 

GOD IS NOT SO CONCERN WITH METHODS OF WORSHIP
HE IS LOOKING FOR WORSHIPPERS
GOD IS LOOKING FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE HEARTS THAT REACH OUT TO HIM,
LIVES THAT ARE OPEN TO HIS LEADING,
EARS THAT ARE SENSITIVE TO HIS VOICE,
HE IS LOOKING FOR CHILDREN WHO WILL TAKE TIME
TO DEVELOP A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR FATHER,
GOD IS LOOKING FOR 'DOERS' NOT 'KNOWERS'





Thursday, October 27, 2011

LOvE FROm The FATHER

Love From the Father ~ By Dae Il Kim

There once was an old man who lived in South Korea.After the war, times were hard and life for him wasn't easy. His occupation was that of a metal collector which was considered the lowest job possible at the time). He would search garbage can after garbage can looking for scraps of metal which he could sell to the government.

He earned a measly ten dollars and spent five to buy food. He lived in a hut which he built on the mountain side and was a very lonely person and nobody cared for him. He lived a sad life for his face was severely scarred from a fire which killed his family. No one would look at him because he was so grotesquely scarred and because of this he kept very quiet and avoided people whenever he could. His main goal in life was to save enough money to fix his face so he could live a "normal" life.

Meanwhile, there was an orphan who lived in the streets every day. Both his parents left him when he was only nine. The boy was blind and suffered from severe malnutrition. Every day the boy begged for food but the people who passed by would either laugh at him or say evil things to him. In fact, some even kicked him or threw dirt in his face. Although he wished so much that he could run away, he couldn't because he was blind. Like the old man, the boy lived a sad sad life and nobody cared about him.

One day, as the old man was walking down the street and he was trying his best to avoid people while looking for scraps of metal, he saw the broken hearted boy and felt sympathy for him. Out of his kind heart, he took the boy to his home. There he fed him, clothed him, and treated him like his own beloved son. The boy was joyful and was so eternally grateful to this person who treated him like a loving father. For the first time in his life, the boy felt loved.

Years passed and the old man and the boy were very happy together. One day the boy said to the old man, "I'm sorry for being so useless. I wish my eyes would become better so I could help you work. You must be such a beautiful and wonderful person because you took care of someone as wretched as me. Maybe one day I could see your wonderful face."

The old man immediately became silent being too moved to say anything.

The next day he went to the hospital and asked the doctor privately how much it would cost for the surgery to heal his face. The doctor told him around a thousand dollars. He was Deeply saddened because he had saved up for ten long years and only had a little more than fifteen hundred. He then asked the doctor how much it would be to heal the young boy's sight. The doctor said fifteen hundred dollars will do. Without thinking, he knew what he had to do. He would give up his life-long dream for this boy whom he loved so dearly.

The next day, he took the boy to the doctor. He didn't want the boy to see him after the operation because of the scars on his face. Hesitantly and sadly, he went up to the young boy and said, "After you receive your sight I can't be with you anymore, yet I shall always think of you. I want you to be happy and live a good life."

After these words he paid the doctor and the tired man left knowing he could never truly reveal himself to the one he loved so dearly. The surgery was very successful and immediately thereafter the boy could see again. He was filled with joy and wondered why he couldn't see the one he who he owed his life to and sacrificed so much for him.

After the boy left the hospital, he started looking for a job and soon he found one at a restaurant. He became a waiter there and worked full time earning a good amount.

Chance would have it that the next day the old man came looking for metals to collect. He started searching around the garbage can of the restaurant. While he was searching, the manager of the restaurant came out and started yelling at him and commanding him to leave because he was scaring the customers.

The boy soon came to the manager's side side and seeing the old man creating such a commotion threatened him even more than the manager. The boy called the old man some foul names, kicked him a few times, and even threw dirt in his face. So quickly had he forgotten that he was picked on by other people in the same way years ago. Slowly....very slowly, the metal collector got up and began limping away aching from the pain that the boy had inflicted on him. As he was leaving he looked at the boy and he smiled a warm smile at the boy (although it was not well received) and left not wanting the boy to see him cry his happy tears.

Later on the day at the restaurant the manager said to the boy, "what an ugly man."

The boy's reply was, "I know, I hope I never see him again."

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When I wrote this I wanted people to feel something in their hearts. I wanted them to be moved and say, "hey this isn't right!! The old man shouldn't have to suffer like that. He saved the boy's life" This typifies Jesus's love for us. He sacrifices and does so much for us and yet we don't care for his existence. We're like the boy and that old man who loves us so much is Jesus. Like the old man, even when we treat him so badly he still smiles at us because we are still his beloved children; he is ever faithful and is an all loving God. I pray that this will help you understand the love of God a little better.

Monday, October 24, 2011

CHOICES..


~ every choice u make has an result.

The quality of your life is a direct result of the quality of your choice.

~ LIFE is full of choices. CHOOSE HOPE!






Making the right choice.


As i grow in the lord & learn more about how the scripture affect on my own lifestyle. we have to make choice that work with our new growth in Christ. Scripture has a way of molding us into who we are or who we are not. Christian usually mature as they grow in the word.

As we mature, so do our choice in life. Some of these choice may be very subtle and we wont even realize the change, but other choice will be major and will make a total transformation in our lives and the way we live.

subtle changes are ones that affect us personally. It may be that we have slowly changed the kind of music we listen for, or changed the manner of how we dress, or changed the kind of the program we watch on tv. When we take up our own cross to follow Christ, some of our choice can be very difficult. If we have family, it will affect them all. But we must persevere if we want to continue to be mature and grow spiritually in the Lord and do HIS will. If we truly believe it is the will of GOD, then we must choose to follow Him.

God allows us to make our own choice in this life. We can choose to follow Him & His wisdom. some of us will discover that our ways our not conductive to a faithful, righteous Christian lifestyle and continue to grow and mature in the word while others will still not able to distinguish a lifestyle apart from their own.

God is not going to stand over us with a paddle and tell us what we can do or cannot do. He allows us to do whatever our heart desires and many make rebellious choices. when we inspect the condition of the world today we see no difference in the manners of its people.
They were only free to make choices but once they made that choice there will be consequences. There is no turning back & there is no worse than to be controlled by our sinful and lustful desires.

The great of news is we can choose to follow God's choices for our life! we can put our trust and faith in God & let Him choose for us. It maybe that we think His choices for us is not the right ones, but know that they are what is needed in our life at the time of that choice, because God loves us and He will always know what is the best for us at all the times and in all things.

Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects Son will not see life, for God's wrath remains on him. John 3 : 36

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Searching For a Soulmate..?

What fruit are you bearing..?
Ep 5:28 , Col 3:28 , Ecc 4: 9-12 , Heb 13 : 14
1 Cor 7 ; 12 - 15
" But the fruit of spirit is LOVE , JOY, PEACE, LONGSUFFERING, GENTLENESS, GOODNESS, FAITH ''




For all those are waiting for their soulmate, this is the good news! The Lord wants to bring a mate to those who will ask Him and have the patience to wait for His Choice. Being single is an important time to prepare us for marriage. It can be also a time to experience a closer communication with God. As we seek God to cleanse us of the world and help us become the kind of wife/husband that would bless someone, we will soon find that we are not lonely.
First, the Lord would begin using us to bless others, then we will find that we are content in Him. Eventually, in God's plan and timing, He will bless us with a wonderful mate so that both can lives, can be a witness for Him. We believe that if a marriage cannot glorify the Lord, then it will be better to remains alone. There are worse thing than being alone.




Marriage the second major choice we make in our lives, and we are should never enter into it without much
prayer. To rush into a marriage can be disastrous. The most important desicion is not a one-time
declaration, but daily determination to follow Jesus
above all. If we allow the emotional or sourish realm to dominate our lives we become more susceptible to the enemy leading us astray through someone. Our emotions need to be cleansed as they are not the signs of love. The true definition of love is "GOD IS LOVE" if God is not in a relationship it is not true love. What this world calls love is really lust since it is built on what the other person does for me, not what i can do for him or her. If the other person fails to keep up his end of the bargain, a divorce occurs because the offended mate is no
longer pleased. This is the attitude of the world's so called "LOVE". God's love loves without receiving back, forgiving and patient, gentle, kind, waits and sacrifice.


Man's emotions are not reliable gauge upon which to establish a marriage relationship. We must know in the spirit that it is God's will, it much better to marry for character than for emotion. Emotions fluctuate, character doesn't. Women or man who allow emotions to rule them will never be victorious christians. Emotion should always follow, never lead!



Marriage in a Christian's life should be based on desicion directed by the Holy Spirit. A christian's love for another is a commitment of course, The Lord will supply the emotions for the mates He sends, but that should not be the criterion for making the desicion to marry. The Lord should be sought, and whatever He speaks to us what we should do. He knows the future and what is the best for us. If we trust Him, He will not fail us in this or any other important area.
many precious people suffer because they are living with unsaved mates. Some did not have Christ when they made their marriage decision, but they have since found the Lord. Those will have God's grace and love to win their mate for Jesus. The Lord always strives to bring the lost mate to himself through the partner who know Him. Mighty miracle of deliverance and salvation have occurred when people have endured suffering in order to bring their mates to the Lord. Those people who have the light, but choose to marry into darkness by yoking themselves to unsaved mates find that their flesh has led them away from God. The Lord wants to bless marriage unions and see His plan fulfilled in both Mates lives. What a glorious plans He had from the beginning for both male and female. We can trust Him in this important decision. If we will totally commit to do His will we will never be dissapointed in the one He sends into our lives.

" GOD KNOWS YOUR ADDRESS AND WILL BRING YOUR MATE TO YOU WHEN YOU ARE BOTH READY, AND NOT BEFORE. YOU ARE JUST WASTING YOUR LIFE IF YOU DATE PERSON AFTER PERSON "








The chance of meeting your partner for life on the very first try is unlikely. You should date, and dont woory about making mistakes. we learn from our mistakes, mistakes help us grow.


Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Slow Down..

You are not responsible for doing
it all yourself, right now.
Remember a happy, peaceful time in your past.
Rest there. Each moment has richness
that takes a lifetime to savor.
Set your own pace.
When someone is pushing you,
it's OK to tell them they're pushing.

Take nothing for granted:
watch water flow, the corn grow,
the leaves blow, your neighbor mow.
Taste your food.
God gives it to delight as well as to nourish.
Notice the sun and the moon as they rise and set.
They are remarkable for their steady pattern
of movement, not their speed.

Quit planning how you're going to use
what you know, learn, or possess.
God's gifts just are;
be grateful and their purpose will be clear.
When you talk with someone,
don't think about what you'll say next.
Thoughts will spring up naturally if you let them.
Talk and play with children.
It will bring out the unhurried little person inside you.

Create a place in your home...
at your work...in your heart...
where you can go for quiet and recollection.
You deserve it.
Allow yourself time to be lazy and unproductive.
Rest isn't luxury; it's a necessity.
Listen to the wind blow.
It carries a message of yesterday, tomorrow
and now. NOW counts.

Rest on your laurels.
They bring comfort whatever their size,
age, or condition.
Talk slower. Talk less.
Don't talk. Communication isn't measured by words.
Give yourself permission to be late sometimes.
Life is for living, not scheduling.

Listen to the song of a bird; the complete song.
Music and nature are gifts,
but only if you are willing to receive them.
Take time just to think.
Action is good and necessary,
but it's fruitful only if we muse, ponder, and mull.
Make time for play - the things you like to do.
Whatever your age, your inner child needs re-creation.

Watch and listen to the night sky.
It speaks.
Listen to the words you speak, especially in prayer.
Learn to stand back and let others take their turn as leaders.
There will always be new opportunities
for you to step out in front again.

Divide big jobs into little jobs.
If God took six days to create the universe,
can you hope to do any better?
When you find yourself rushing & anxious, stop.
Ask yourself "WHY?"
you are rushing and anxious.
The reasons may improve your self-understanding.
Take time to read.
Thoughtful reading is enriching reading.

Direct your life with purposeful choices,
not with speed and efficiency.
The best musician is one who plays with expression and meaning, not the one who finishes first.
Take a day off alone; make a retreat.
You can learn from monks and hermits without becoming one.
Pet a furry friend.
You will give and get the gift of now.

Work with your hands.
It frees the mind.
Take time to wonder.
Without wonder, life is merely existence.
Sit in the dark.
It will teach you to see and hear, taste and smell.

Once in a while, turn down the lights,
the volume, the throttle, the invitations.
Less really can be more.
Let go. Nothing is usually the hardest thing to do
but often it is the best.
Take a walk-but don't go anywhere.
If you walk just to get somewhere,
you sacrifice the walking.

Saturday, July 30, 2011

:: FAITH IS NOTHING AT ALL TANGIBLE.. IT IS SIMPLY BELIEVING GOD! AND LIKE SIGHT, IT IS NOTHING APART FROM ITS OBJECT. YOU MIGHT AS WELL SHUT YOUR EYES AND LOOK INSIDE, AND SEE WHETER YOU HAVE SIGHT, AS TO LOOK INSIDE TO DISCOVER WHETER YOU HAVE FAITH




Finding Christ and discovering faith in our life was not something that i had ever considered and spend a lot of my times.

As a believer, often i explaining to my friends why i cant spend my times and why i cant hang out with them on sunday because i have church and have to go to church, or explaining that church is not hobby or an extension. some of my friends were dont see religion or faith when they look at me and i think that they find in me hard to understand. They appreciate the changes in my life, such as in my character, i kind of peaceful, i'm more focused, i'am happier but they seem unable to acknowledge the root of these changes.

As a teenager, sometimes i think that how do i keep trying to balance all the times in my life, and i'm not sure if it makes me selfish because i dont want other parts of my life to stop due to finding faith. i still do the same thing as a normal young people do, such as falling in love, get frustated, have silly arguments. sometimes do all that things make me less of christian.

Presence of the Lord in my life was changed me a lot nowadays. i've got through a lots of precious experiences in every single of my life. in every my doubt, worry,troubles, i've learned to do not turn to people instead of finding God.

MOTIVASI & INSPIRASI


: perbualan antara burung kakak tua dengan burung gagak :




Ada seekor burung gagak yang berjumpa dengan seekor burung kakak tua. Burung gagak kelihatan agak gelisah ketika seekor burung kakak tua menanyakan tentang kegelisahannya. "Kenapa kelihatannya gelisah wahai saudaraku?" tanya burung kakak tua tersebut.
"Orang-orang disini sudah tidak suka dengan suaraku," jawab burung gagak. "Saya hendak berpindah ke timur," jawab burung gagak. "Mengapa?" tanya burung kakak tua. "Mungkin di sana orang-orang akan menyukai suaraku." "Ooo... itu masalahnya. Cobalah ubah suaramu menjadi lebih bagus agar mereka menyukaimu karena sebelum kamu ubah suaramu, pindah kemanapun juga orang tidak akan menyukai suaramu itu," kata burung kakak tua..

Nilai penerapan..
1. melalui cerita ini, kita tahu bhwa kita x boleh memaksa orang lain utk berubah, melainkn kita sendiri berusaha utk berubah. sejurus kita hdup dlm dunia yg penuh dgn persaingan, x mngherankn bhwa manusia jg turut mengalami bnyk perubahan demi perubahn dlm hidup. Dan perubahan2 itu bukanlah sesuatu yg mudah, mlainkn satu proses diluar zon keselesaan.
bila orang yg kita senang mulai tegur kita untuk berubah, sudah tentu kita akan berfikir apa dan dimana silapnya kita. kita sbg manusia biasa dan bukanlah ciptaan sempurna sudah wajar ada kelemahan.. tetapi justru dlm kelemahan kitalah Kuasa Tuhan mnjd sempurna.. kdg2 manusia xmahu lari dr pendirian2 yg dia percayai betul bila dikritik oleh orang lain. seperti kisah d atas, kemana pun dia pergi jika orang tersebut x belajar untuk menerima pendapat orang lain, dia ttap xkan berhasil.. PERUBAHAN BUKANLAH PERUBAHAN SEHINGGA TERJADINYA PERUBAHAN.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011


GOSSIP ??
~ it is most dangerous sins because it is so subtle and ambiguos.. secret information,if you hear anyone else's name used in a conversation. Root
gossip is NEGATIVENESS, JUDGEMENTALISM, SLANDER etc..
A gossip betrays a confidence, so avoid a man who talks too much!
" if you can't say something good about others,dont say anything at all.. God holds you accountable to your words
[mat 12 ; 36-37 ]
.. those are gossip & slander are not right fellowship with God [ROMAN 1 : 28-32 ].


what to do ??

~ keep yout nose out of other people's bussiness..
~ if u cant say something good or encouraging about others , keep ur mouth SHUT [ eph 4 : 29 ]
~ if ur " friends ' start bad mouthing others to you, stop them in their tracks refuse to be a partaker of their sins [ 1tim 5 ; 22 ]

Friday, December 31, 2010

a NEW year..


God once told me that it wasn’t my fault – my guilt, my isolation, the other ways I turned out. He said I’ve done what I could with what I had.

When I was a kid, I didn’t do anything special. I wasn’t doing brilliantly at school or making a special effort to make friends, or going to therapy to deal with the negativity in my life. I was just me. I didn’t think perfectly, deflecting all negative thoughts, so the darkness wouldn’t get to me. In fact, the darkness did get to me. Severely. I just lived, barely got by, and coped badly. It was a mess. It was all a dark, horrible mess, and I was incredibly scarred.

I have a lot of problems, as an adult. I constantly feel I’m a bad person. I can become quite isolated, and withdraw from life. I’ve struggled with depression for many years, and carry a huge layer of guilt with me at all times.

But God said it wasn’t my fault. How I turned out. He said I did what I could with what I had. He didn’t look over my past and say I should have worked harder to get rid of my negative thoughts, and should have made more friends. He didn’t blame me at all, for how I turned out.

In my life now, I feel I need to think and act perfectly. I’m not allowed to be sad – I need to manage my negative thinking, so I don’t get depressed. I’m not allowed to be alone – I need to have people around me so I can think correctly and more positively, and not be in my own world. I have to work hard, doing everything correctly, and meeting the right standards. I can’t let myself down in any way, or the negative consequences are my fault.

But God doesn’t think this way. Imagine if he’d thought that way about how I grew up. God looks at me and says, however I’m coping, however I’m feeling, however I’m doing, it’s ok. It’s not my fault. The same rules apply now as when I was a kid, when I wasn’t coping and it all fell down around me. I did what I could with what I had. Right now, I’m doing what I can. If I’m upset, lonely, overwhelmed, feeling negative, or even getting depressed, I’m doing what I can. I’m doing what I can, because however I’m doing is ok. I’m ok, no matter how I’m doing, because I’m ok as I am.

It’s not about meeting a standard. It’s about being ourselves. We’re ok if we have no friends and are confused and scared and doing the wrong thing; if our lives are falling apart and we’re depressed. We’re ok, as we are. God doesn’t frown upon us and say we’re only doing ok if we’re coping well. He loves and accepts us as we are, and will never leave us. We don’t need to think and act perfectly. We don’t need to be coping. We don’t need to be happy. We just need to be ourselves. We’re doing what we can. God doesn’t ask any more of us. He loves us, as we are.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

ANDA ISTIMEWA


[mzm 139]~Aku bersyukur kepadaMu oleh kerana kejadianku dahysat dan ajaib;
ajaib apa yang Kau buat, dan jiwaku benar-benar menyedarinya..

Engkau istimewa, tiada orang sepertimu..
sejak awal tak pernah ada orang yang sama sepertimu..
tak seorang pun yang memiliki tawa yg sama, mata yg sama, hidung yg sama,
rambut yg sama, tangan yg sama, suara yg sama sepertimu.
Engkau istimewa. tak seorang pun yg memiliki tulisan tangan yg sama,sepertimu.
Tak seorangpun di dunia memiliki selera makan yg sama, pakaian, muzik ataupun seni.
Tak seorang pun memandang segalanya sepertimu..

Sepanjang zaman, tak ada orang yg tawa sepetimu, tak ada orang yg menangis sepertimu,
dan apa yg membuatmu menangis atau tertawa tidak akan pernah mengakibatkan tawa dan tangisan yg sama pada diri siapapun.
Engkaulah satu-satunya dlm segala ciptaan yg memiliki kemampuan seperti itu.
Ya,akan selalu ada org yg lebih baik dalam satu hal yg menjadi keterampilanmu, namun tak seorangpun di seluruh jagat raya ini yg dapat mencapai kualiti perpaduan seperti yang engkau miliki dalam soal talenta, gagasan, kemampuan dan sensitiviti. seperti ruangan penuh dgn alat-alat muzik,ada yg lebih baik dimainkan sendiri, namun tak satupun dpt menandingi suara simfoni ketika semuanya dimainkan sekaligus. Engkau adalah sebuah simfoni.
Dalam segala masa,tak seorangpun akan berpenampilan, berkata-kata, berfikir, berjalan, dan bertingkahlaku sepertimu..

Engkau istimewa.....engkau unik. Dan dalam segala keunikanmu ada nilai yg besar. Kerana nilaimu yang besar, engkau tidak perlu meniru orang lain... Engkau akan menerima-Ya, merayakan perbezaan-perbezaanmu.

Engkau istimewa dan mulai menyedari bahawa bukanlah sebuah kebetulan engkau istimewa.
Engkau mulai melihat bahawa Allah menjadikanmu istimewa untuk tujuan tertentu.
Dia pasti menyediakan sesuatu tugas buatmu, yg tak akan dapat dilaksanakan oleh sesiapapun sebaik engkau..
Dari jutaan individu,hanya satu yg memenuhi syarat, hanya satu yang memiliki kombinasi yang tepat. Yang satu itu adalah engkau , kerana ...

ENGKAU ISTIMEWA ;)

HIDUP IBARAT KESEIMBANGAN

Bayangkan hidup sebagai suatu permainan ketangkasan dimana kita harus memainkan keseimbangan 5 buah bola yang dilempar ke udara. Bola-bola tersebut bernama: Pekerjaan, Keluarga, Kesehatan, Teman dan Spirit dan kita harus menjaga agar kelima bola-bola ini seimbang di udara.

Kita akan segera mengerti bahwa ternyata "Pekerjaan" hanyalah sebuah bola karet. Jika kita menjatuhkannya maka ia akan segera memantul kembali. Tetapi 4 bola lainnya dibuat dari kaca. Dan jika kita menjatuhkan salah satunya maka ia akan ada stretch mark, goresan, rosak atau mungkin saja hancur. Dan ingatlah bola-bola itu tidak akan pernah kembali kepada bentuk asalnya. Kita harus memahaminya benar-benar dan berusaha keras untuk seeimbangkannya.

BAGAIMANA CARANYA ??

* Jangan rosakkan nilai kita dengan membandingkannya dengan nilai orang lain. Perbezaan yang ada diciptakan untuk membuat masing-masing diri kita special. Jangan tetapkan tujuan dan sasaran kita dengan mengacu pada apa yang orang lain anggap itu penting. Hanya kita yang mengerti dan dapat merasa "apa yang terbaik untuk kita".
* Jangan biarkan hidup kita terpuruk dengan hidup di ‘masa lampau' atau dalam mimpi masa depan. ‘Satu hari hidup pada suatu waktu' bererti hidup untuk seluruh waktu hidupmu. Jangan menyerah ketika masih ada sesuatu yang dapat kita berikan. Tidak ada yang benar-benar kalah sampai kita berhenti berusaha.
* Jangan takut mengakui bahwa diri kita tidaklah sempurna. Ketidaksempurnaan inilah yang merupakan sulaman benang rapuh untuk mengikat kita satu sama lain.
* Jangan takut menghadapi risiko. Anggaplah risiko sebagai kesempatan kita untuk belajar bagaimana menjadi berani.
* Jangan lupa bahwa kebutuhan emosi terbesar dari seseorang adalah keperluan untuk merasa dihargai dan dicintai.
* Jangan takut untuk belajar sesuatu. Ilmu Pengetahuan adalah harta karun yang selalu dapat kita bawa kemanapun tanpa membebani.
* Jangan gunakan waktu dan kata-kata dengan sembarangan. Karena keduanya tidak mungkin kita ulang kembali jika telah lewat. Hidup bukanlah pacuan melainkan suatu perjalanan dimana setiap tahap sepanjang jalannya harus dinikmati.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

[PEACE VALLEY,RAWANG NURSING HOME]

Hallo all...
The long way sepanjang praktikal d peace valley
from 15.April.2009 until 15.May.2009 (Diploma In Nursing-Masterskill)
disana ada 24 patien,lots of them are chinese and indian..
HERE WE GOOOO.......

Ini la dia Nursing Home Peace Valley Rawang selangor..
nice place actually,like @ kampung..hehehe

Ini la mereka ketika Rest time before feeding(11.45am)
kesian,all of them is mengantuk gara2 PANAS..haha

Study Group....NICE :)

sebahagian dari OUR ACTIVITY DAILY LIVING.
nothing to do actually,soo tidur dan makan ja keja..


OUR BIG PARTY


KEK PENGHARGAAN..
thanx a lot to staff nurse there :)
May GOD bless U all...



TO ALL NURSES...WHOEVER ARE U,
HAPPY NURSES DAY
our job is nothing without sincerely....
[12 may]



HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY...
especially thanks to my mum,GOD bless U..
[10 may]
nak kek??



OUR BAD DAY!!
[14may09]
kena denda tulis( sndiri baca la)..hehehe
memory ter'LUCU d rawang...

Ini la dia budak2 nakal,
bz menulis denda....
keep it ya... :p
Me & Ms.Tenna (our Clinical Instructor)
we are the same -MADE IN BORNEO-
terima kasih utk segalanya.. GBU :
Here we are...
Sem 1 [intake 200805 & 200901]
Dip. In Nursing,Masterskill


hehehe.... Nothing to do,
wasehh,dgn gaya tersendiri..
JUMM,tengok....



Lastly,special thanks to all staff and pekerja2 d rawang..
Your kindness is forever in my heart..

LOVE AND PEACE FROM US
GOD BLESS!!

Friday, May 1, 2009

KENAPA PERLU ADA MASALAH ??


Masalah-masalah yang kita hadapi boleh membuat kita jatuh atau bertumbuh, itu tergantung dengan bagaimana caranya kita menyelesaikannya..

Sangat sayang bila banyak orang gagal untuk melihat bagaimana Tuhan Menggunakan masalah untuk kebaikan mereka. Mereka lebih memilih untuk bertindak dengan bodoh dan membenci masalah-masalah yang mereka hadapi, daripada berdiam diri untuk merenungkan kebaikan apa yang boleh mereka Dapati dari masalah-masalah tersebut.
Ada 5 cara yang Tuhan menggunakan masalah-masalah di dalam kehidupan anda:
1. Tuhan menggunakan masalah untuk MENGARAHKAN anda.
Kadang-kadang Tuhan harus menyalakan api di bawah kita untuk membuat kita tetap bergerak. Sering kali masalah yang kita hadapi akan mengarahkan kita ke arah yang baru dan memberikan kita motivasi untuk berubah. Apakah Tuhan sedang mencoba menarik perhatian anda?
2. Tuhan menggunakan masalah untuk MENGUJI anda.
Manusia bagaikan teh celup…jika anda ingin tahu apa yang ada di dalamnya, celupkan saja ke dalam air panas! Pernahkah Tuhan menguji kesetiaan anda dengan masalah? Apakah yang didapati oleh masalah-masalah itu tentang anda? “Saudara-saudaraku, anggaplah sebagai suatu kebahagiaan, apabila kamu jatuh ke dalam berbagai-bagai pencobaan, sebab kamu tahu, bahwa ujian terhadap imanmu itu menghasilkan ketekunan.”
(Yakobus 1:2-3).
3. Tuhan menggunakan masalah untuk MENGOREKSI anda.
Ada pelajaran-pelajaran yang kita pelajari hanya melalui penderitaan dan kegagalan. Mungkin waktu anda masih kecil orang tua anda mengajar anda untuk tidak boleh menyentuh cerek yang panas. Tetapi mungkin anda belajar justru karena setelah anda terbakar. Kadang-kadang kita baru bisa menghargai sesuatu… kesihatan, wang, hubungan…, saat kita sudah kehilangannya. “Bahwa aku tertindas itu baik bagiku, supaya aku belajar ketetapan-ketetapan-Mu.”
(Mazmur 119:71).
4. Tuhan menggunakan masalah untuk MELINDUNGI anda.
Suatu masalah boleh menjadi berkat jika masalah tersebut mencegah kita dari bahaya. Tahun lalu ada satu teman saya yang dihentikan dari pekerjaannya karena dia menolak untuk melakukan sesuatu yang tidak etis oleh bossnya. Pengangguran itu merupakan suatu masalah bagi dia, tetapi justru itulah yang menghindarkan dia ditangkap dan dimasukan ke dalam penjara setahun kemudian ketika kelakuan management yang tidak etis itu akhirnya terbongkar.
“Memang kamu telah mereka-rekakan yang jahat terhadap aku, tetapi Allah telah mereka-rekakannya untuk kebaikan…”
(Kejadian 50:20).
5. Tuhan menggunakan masalah untuk MENYEMPURNAKAN anda.
Jika kita menanggapi masalah dengan cara dan pandangan yang benar, masalah tersebut bisa membentuk kita. Tuhan lebih memperhatikan karakter kita daripada kenyamanan kita. Hanya hubungan anda dengan Tuhan dan karakter anda yang akan dibawa dengan anda sampai kekal. "Kita malah bermegah dalam kesengsaraan kita, karena kita tahu, bahwa … kesengsaraan itu menimbulkan ketekunan, dan ketekunan menimbulkan tahan uji dan tahan uji menimbulkan pengharapan. "
(Roma 5:3-4)
TETAPLAH BERLARI SAMPAI GARIS PENAMAT !!